"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Feelings of guilt..help me out

THEYOUNGONE

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A nigga be feeling guilty for doing **** that's ALPHA..it's crazy..like I was a shy ass nigga, no females, not socializing, not feeling good, scary, ect. Now since a nigga been laced with some **** I be feeling guilty, everything I do that I dont normally do I feel guilty and a funny feeling goes through my body, it makes a nigga sometimes retreat back, like I'm doing something wrong. I want to break though this **** and live life to the fullest. I feel guilty for living a good life, with females in it. The old me feels normal and more thrilling, that **** crazy...the old me like I said was hell, but i dont get the guilt or funny feeling when I'm acting like this. Any one of yall ever went through this? Help me out
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wifehunter

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Get a life!

Fishing, skydiving, rock climbing, music, study, games etc.etc.etc.

Go!!!
 

wifehunter

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Go deeper, as to why you made it so simple...get a "Life"..what does that have to with me feeling guilty
Ok, ask yourself "why do I feel guilty?"

...and go from there.
 

btownbuck2012

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A nigga be feeling guilty for doing **** that's ALPHA..it's crazy..like I was a shy ass nigga, no females, not socializing, not feeling good, scary, ect. Now since a nigga been laced with some **** I be feeling guilty, everything I do that I dont normally do I feel guilty and a funny feeling goes through my body, it makes a nigga sometimes retreat back, like I'm doing something wrong. I want to break though this **** and live life to the fullest. I feel guilty for living a good life, with females in it. The old me feels normal and more thrilling, that **** crazy...the old me like I said was hell, but i dont get the guilt or funny feeling when I'm acting like this. Any one of yall ever went through this? Help me out
Don't feel bad. Women are ten times worse than men when it comes to deceitfulness, game playing and just having a cold remorseless heart in general. Game is a way to tip the scales back in your favor. Wait until you get screwed over hard by some chick and watch those feelings melt away.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Why should you feel guilty? Because other people don't want you to be happy? **** them. You do you, don't let anyone else tell you who to be or how to act. Embrace yourself.
 

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You should never feel guilty unless you do something truly horrible.

You don't owe the world anything.
 

Roober

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You are going to feel guilt occasionally... and that is okay. It is what you do with those feelings that matter...

Do I feel guilty for leaving my marriage? Yep! Have I made myself a better man and father since then? You bet!

Get my point?
 
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