"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Feelings of guilt..help me out

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A nigga be feeling guilty for doing **** that's ALPHA..it's crazy..like I was a shy ass nigga, no females, not socializing, not feeling good, scary, ect. Now since a nigga been laced with some **** I be feeling guilty, everything I do that I dont normally do I feel guilty and a funny feeling goes through my body, it makes a nigga sometimes retreat back, like I'm doing something wrong. I want to break though this **** and live life to the fullest. I feel guilty for living a good life, with females in it. The old me feels normal and more thrilling, that **** crazy...the old me like I said was hell, but i dont get the guilt or funny feeling when I'm acting like this. Any one of yall ever went through this? Help me out
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Get a life!

Fishing, skydiving, rock climbing, music, study, games etc.etc.etc.

Go!!!
 
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THEYOUNGONE said:
Go deeper, as to why you made it so simple...get a "Life"..what does that have to with me feeling guilty
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Ok, ask yourself "why do I feel guilty?"

...and go from there.
 
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THEYOUNGONE said:
A nigga be feeling guilty for doing **** that's ALPHA..it's crazy..like I was a shy ass nigga, no females, not socializing, not feeling good, scary, ect. Now since a nigga been laced with some **** I be feeling guilty, everything I do that I dont normally do I feel guilty and a funny feeling goes through my body, it makes a nigga sometimes retreat back, like I'm doing something wrong. I want to break though this **** and live life to the fullest. I feel guilty for living a good life, with females in it. The old me feels normal and more thrilling, that **** crazy...the old me like I said was hell, but i dont get the guilt or funny feeling when I'm acting like this. Any one of yall ever went through this? Help me out
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Don't feel bad. Women are ten times worse than men when it comes to deceitfulness, game playing and just having a cold remorseless heart in general. Game is a way to tip the scales back in your favor. Wait until you get screwed over hard by some chick and watch those feelings melt away.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why should you feel guilty? Because other people don't want you to be happy? **** them. You do you, don't let anyone else tell you who to be or how to act. Embrace yourself.
 
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You should never feel guilty unless you do something truly horrible.

You don't owe the world anything.
 
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You are going to feel guilt occasionally... and that is okay. It is what you do with those feelings that matter...

Do I feel guilty for leaving my marriage? Yep! Have I made myself a better man and father since then? You bet!

Get my point?
 
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