"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Feelings of guilt..help me out

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A nigga be feeling guilty for doing **** that's ALPHA..it's crazy..like I was a shy ass nigga, no females, not socializing, not feeling good, scary, ect. Now since a nigga been laced with some **** I be feeling guilty, everything I do that I dont normally do I feel guilty and a funny feeling goes through my body, it makes a nigga sometimes retreat back, like I'm doing something wrong. I want to break though this **** and live life to the fullest. I feel guilty for living a good life, with females in it. The old me feels normal and more thrilling, that **** crazy...the old me like I said was hell, but i dont get the guilt or funny feeling when I'm acting like this. Any one of yall ever went through this? Help me out
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Get a life!

Fishing, skydiving, rock climbing, music, study, games etc.etc.etc.

Go!!!
 
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THEYOUNGONE said:
Go deeper, as to why you made it so simple...get a "Life"..what does that have to with me feeling guilty
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Ok, ask yourself "why do I feel guilty?"

...and go from there.
 
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THEYOUNGONE said:
A nigga be feeling guilty for doing **** that's ALPHA..it's crazy..like I was a shy ass nigga, no females, not socializing, not feeling good, scary, ect. Now since a nigga been laced with some **** I be feeling guilty, everything I do that I dont normally do I feel guilty and a funny feeling goes through my body, it makes a nigga sometimes retreat back, like I'm doing something wrong. I want to break though this **** and live life to the fullest. I feel guilty for living a good life, with females in it. The old me feels normal and more thrilling, that **** crazy...the old me like I said was hell, but i dont get the guilt or funny feeling when I'm acting like this. Any one of yall ever went through this? Help me out
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Don't feel bad. Women are ten times worse than men when it comes to deceitfulness, game playing and just having a cold remorseless heart in general. Game is a way to tip the scales back in your favor. Wait until you get screwed over hard by some chick and watch those feelings melt away.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why should you feel guilty? Because other people don't want you to be happy? **** them. You do you, don't let anyone else tell you who to be or how to act. Embrace yourself.
 
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You should never feel guilty unless you do something truly horrible.

You don't owe the world anything.
 
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You are going to feel guilt occasionally... and that is okay. It is what you do with those feelings that matter...

Do I feel guilty for leaving my marriage? Yep! Have I made myself a better man and father since then? You bet!

Get my point?
 
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