"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Feelings of guilt..help me out

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A nigga be feeling guilty for doing **** that's ALPHA..it's crazy..like I was a shy ass nigga, no females, not socializing, not feeling good, scary, ect. Now since a nigga been laced with some **** I be feeling guilty, everything I do that I dont normally do I feel guilty and a funny feeling goes through my body, it makes a nigga sometimes retreat back, like I'm doing something wrong. I want to break though this **** and live life to the fullest. I feel guilty for living a good life, with females in it. The old me feels normal and more thrilling, that **** crazy...the old me like I said was hell, but i dont get the guilt or funny feeling when I'm acting like this. Any one of yall ever went through this? Help me out
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Get a life!

Fishing, skydiving, rock climbing, music, study, games etc.etc.etc.

Go!!!
 
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THEYOUNGONE said:
Go deeper, as to why you made it so simple...get a "Life"..what does that have to with me feeling guilty
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Ok, ask yourself "why do I feel guilty?"

...and go from there.
 
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THEYOUNGONE said:
A nigga be feeling guilty for doing **** that's ALPHA..it's crazy..like I was a shy ass nigga, no females, not socializing, not feeling good, scary, ect. Now since a nigga been laced with some **** I be feeling guilty, everything I do that I dont normally do I feel guilty and a funny feeling goes through my body, it makes a nigga sometimes retreat back, like I'm doing something wrong. I want to break though this **** and live life to the fullest. I feel guilty for living a good life, with females in it. The old me feels normal and more thrilling, that **** crazy...the old me like I said was hell, but i dont get the guilt or funny feeling when I'm acting like this. Any one of yall ever went through this? Help me out
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Don't feel bad. Women are ten times worse than men when it comes to deceitfulness, game playing and just having a cold remorseless heart in general. Game is a way to tip the scales back in your favor. Wait until you get screwed over hard by some chick and watch those feelings melt away.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why should you feel guilty? Because other people don't want you to be happy? **** them. You do you, don't let anyone else tell you who to be or how to act. Embrace yourself.
 
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You should never feel guilty unless you do something truly horrible.

You don't owe the world anything.
 
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You are going to feel guilt occasionally... and that is okay. It is what you do with those feelings that matter...

Do I feel guilty for leaving my marriage? Yep! Have I made myself a better man and father since then? You bet!

Get my point?
 
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