"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Feelings of Emptiness

Caldus

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Hey guys,

For some reason I just feel empty lately. Like there is no purpose to life and that it's hopeless to ever make enough meaning of life in order to be satisfied. I'm not talking about a lack of a girlfriend or sex or social life or anything like that. I mean I lack all of these but it doesn't bother me that much anymore. I just want to ask if anyone has ever felt this way before and what do they end up doing? I don't want to just get drunk to ignore the feeling. To me that wouldn't be right. I guess it's a matter of finding meaning for your life hm?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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it's up to you to find out your purpose in life.... If you're lucky, it will be 'special' like Steve Martin's in the movie "The Jerk."
 

Caldus

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
it's up to you to find out your purpose in life.... If you're lucky, it will be 'special' like Steve Martin's in the movie "The Jerk."
Yup, I knew I was right. Not sure why I made the topic.
 

SELF-MASTERY

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If your name were camus instead of caldus I would better understand your emptiness....

But yeah Ive been feeling the same lately as if happiness is something that I can not achieve for awhile, atleast, not until I make certain changes in my life. If I could ever be content; I would if content men ever make anything out of their lives???
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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