"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Feelings of Emptiness

Caldus

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Hey guys,

For some reason I just feel empty lately. Like there is no purpose to life and that it's hopeless to ever make enough meaning of life in order to be satisfied. I'm not talking about a lack of a girlfriend or sex or social life or anything like that. I mean I lack all of these but it doesn't bother me that much anymore. I just want to ask if anyone has ever felt this way before and what do they end up doing? I don't want to just get drunk to ignore the feeling. To me that wouldn't be right. I guess it's a matter of finding meaning for your life hm?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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it's up to you to find out your purpose in life.... If you're lucky, it will be 'special' like Steve Martin's in the movie "The Jerk."
 

Caldus

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
it's up to you to find out your purpose in life.... If you're lucky, it will be 'special' like Steve Martin's in the movie "The Jerk."
Yup, I knew I was right. Not sure why I made the topic.
 

SELF-MASTERY

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If your name were camus instead of caldus I would better understand your emptiness....

But yeah Ive been feeling the same lately as if happiness is something that I can not achieve for awhile, atleast, not until I make certain changes in my life. If I could ever be content; I would if content men ever make anything out of their lives???
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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