"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Feeling trapped. How to handle this situation?

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In my former threads i told about this girl at work. She seems attracted to me (see threads) but today i got really frustrated by her.

Positive today: she is seeking me and wants to hang around with me.

Negative today: she is telling about her boyfriend hoping he is doing a propossel soon and some other bs. She is staring at least three times to a guy who is not from work but was sitting in an office.

Well, i told her i had to leave (not really) so i cutted the conversation.

I feel trapped. I don´t wonne get friendzoned. But how do i do this???
By now i have something like...whatever, i just do my things at work and keep the convo´s short. But on the otherhand i am thinking that i should make clear i am not interested in her as a normal friend/colleague without losing control of myself or being impatient.
How to handle this situation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So, where are the dj´s now?
I believe i was asking a valid question in my thread but it seems i have to do it on my own.
Maybe it´s a good idea to tell her that i believe she is having a sexual personality or i might ask her how it is to be in a perfect relationship. The hell with it.
 
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1. Your her Work Chick Friend.
2. You work with her
3. Your her Work Chick Friend.
4. She is nearly engaged....AND TELLING YOU ABOUT IT BECAUSE...
5. You are her Work Chick Friend.
6. You dont have a chance
7. You are her Work Chick Friend.
8. Move On
9. You are her Work Chick Friend.
10. You are not asking a valid question
11. You are her Work Chick Friend.
12. Dont be insulting the people you wish answers from.
13. You are her Work Chick Friend.
14. Move on and dont go for a girl from work who is engaged....this thread to an outsider seems to have an obviouse solution and that is.....leave her be because.....


YOU ARE HER WORK CHICK FRIEND.
 
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#12 correct.
#1,3,5,6,7,9,10,11,13 i disagree
#14 is probably correct while i disagree with the last phrase
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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