"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Feeling trapped. How to handle this situation?

LittleBigOne

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In my former threads i told about this girl at work. She seems attracted to me (see threads) but today i got really frustrated by her.

Positive today: she is seeking me and wants to hang around with me.

Negative today: she is telling about her boyfriend hoping he is doing a propossel soon and some other bs. She is staring at least three times to a guy who is not from work but was sitting in an office.

Well, i told her i had to leave (not really) so i cutted the conversation.

I feel trapped. I don´t wonne get friendzoned. But how do i do this???
By now i have something like...whatever, i just do my things at work and keep the convo´s short. But on the otherhand i am thinking that i should make clear i am not interested in her as a normal friend/colleague without losing control of myself or being impatient.
How to handle this situation?
 

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LittleBigOne

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So, where are the dj´s now?
I believe i was asking a valid question in my thread but it seems i have to do it on my own.
Maybe it´s a good idea to tell her that i believe she is having a sexual personality or i might ask her how it is to be in a perfect relationship. The hell with it.
 

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1. Your her Work Chick Friend.
2. You work with her
3. Your her Work Chick Friend.
4. She is nearly engaged....AND TELLING YOU ABOUT IT BECAUSE...
5. You are her Work Chick Friend.
6. You dont have a chance
7. You are her Work Chick Friend.
8. Move On
9. You are her Work Chick Friend.
10. You are not asking a valid question
11. You are her Work Chick Friend.
12. Dont be insulting the people you wish answers from.
13. You are her Work Chick Friend.
14. Move on and dont go for a girl from work who is engaged....this thread to an outsider seems to have an obviouse solution and that is.....leave her be because.....


YOU ARE HER WORK CHICK FRIEND.
 

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#12 correct.
#1,3,5,6,7,9,10,11,13 i disagree
#14 is probably correct while i disagree with the last phrase
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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