"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Feeling trapped. How to handle this situation?

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In my former threads i told about this girl at work. She seems attracted to me (see threads) but today i got really frustrated by her.

Positive today: she is seeking me and wants to hang around with me.

Negative today: she is telling about her boyfriend hoping he is doing a propossel soon and some other bs. She is staring at least three times to a guy who is not from work but was sitting in an office.

Well, i told her i had to leave (not really) so i cutted the conversation.

I feel trapped. I don´t wonne get friendzoned. But how do i do this???
By now i have something like...whatever, i just do my things at work and keep the convo´s short. But on the otherhand i am thinking that i should make clear i am not interested in her as a normal friend/colleague without losing control of myself or being impatient.
How to handle this situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So, where are the dj´s now?
I believe i was asking a valid question in my thread but it seems i have to do it on my own.
Maybe it´s a good idea to tell her that i believe she is having a sexual personality or i might ask her how it is to be in a perfect relationship. The hell with it.
 
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1. Your her Work Chick Friend.
2. You work with her
3. Your her Work Chick Friend.
4. She is nearly engaged....AND TELLING YOU ABOUT IT BECAUSE...
5. You are her Work Chick Friend.
6. You dont have a chance
7. You are her Work Chick Friend.
8. Move On
9. You are her Work Chick Friend.
10. You are not asking a valid question
11. You are her Work Chick Friend.
12. Dont be insulting the people you wish answers from.
13. You are her Work Chick Friend.
14. Move on and dont go for a girl from work who is engaged....this thread to an outsider seems to have an obviouse solution and that is.....leave her be because.....


YOU ARE HER WORK CHICK FRIEND.
 
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#12 correct.
#1,3,5,6,7,9,10,11,13 i disagree
#14 is probably correct while i disagree with the last phrase
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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