"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Feeling trapped. How to handle this situation?

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In my former threads i told about this girl at work. She seems attracted to me (see threads) but today i got really frustrated by her.

Positive today: she is seeking me and wants to hang around with me.

Negative today: she is telling about her boyfriend hoping he is doing a propossel soon and some other bs. She is staring at least three times to a guy who is not from work but was sitting in an office.

Well, i told her i had to leave (not really) so i cutted the conversation.

I feel trapped. I don´t wonne get friendzoned. But how do i do this???
By now i have something like...whatever, i just do my things at work and keep the convo´s short. But on the otherhand i am thinking that i should make clear i am not interested in her as a normal friend/colleague without losing control of myself or being impatient.
How to handle this situation?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So, where are the dj´s now?
I believe i was asking a valid question in my thread but it seems i have to do it on my own.
Maybe it´s a good idea to tell her that i believe she is having a sexual personality or i might ask her how it is to be in a perfect relationship. The hell with it.
 
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1. Your her Work Chick Friend.
2. You work with her
3. Your her Work Chick Friend.
4. She is nearly engaged....AND TELLING YOU ABOUT IT BECAUSE...
5. You are her Work Chick Friend.
6. You dont have a chance
7. You are her Work Chick Friend.
8. Move On
9. You are her Work Chick Friend.
10. You are not asking a valid question
11. You are her Work Chick Friend.
12. Dont be insulting the people you wish answers from.
13. You are her Work Chick Friend.
14. Move on and dont go for a girl from work who is engaged....this thread to an outsider seems to have an obviouse solution and that is.....leave her be because.....


YOU ARE HER WORK CHICK FRIEND.
 
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#12 correct.
#1,3,5,6,7,9,10,11,13 i disagree
#14 is probably correct while i disagree with the last phrase
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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