"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not Quite There

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These past few weeks i have noticed myself being short of breath, and wondered what might be causing this?

Would it be because I am doing little cardio?

or because I am eating a lot of food high in salts, i.e nuts, and alsoeggs which raise colesterol? and have stopped eating as much fruit?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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it could be underlying stress that is causing you to breathe poorly.

Pay attention to your posture wherever you are.. how do you sit. Are your breaths shallow?

You might want to try some Tai Chi exercises... I know it's really "gay" but they can do you a world of good to get your proper breathing rythm back.
 

Not Quite There

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
it could be underlying stress that is causing you to breathe poorly.

Pay attention to your posture wherever you are.. how do you sit. Are your breaths shallow?

You might want to try some Tai Chi exercises... I know it's really "gay" but they can do you a world of good to get your proper breathing rythm back.

I had been stressed a bit, but i don't think that was it.

and i've already tried to improve my posture.

I wouldnt be agaisnt doing tai chi, but I would liek to find the cause of this, seeing as i've enver had it before?

I can only put it down to the lack of cardio and the bulking diet?????


well, on my off days from lifting now i'm gonna go swimming, and on other days do 5 to 10 minutes cycling.

hopefully it will get my breathing back.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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do you feel dizzy at all? if there is no dizzyness then your shortness of breath during stress period is indication of panic attack.

I consult this problem with psychiatrist. He confirm it. You have to take deep breath slowly. If breathing exercise fail to work, you can ask your family doctor to prescribe anti-anxiety drug to prevent panic attack.
 

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Do you have any types of Allergies? Or Athsma?
 
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