"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Feeling insecure and can’t take this new relationship serious.
- Thread starter T-Mack
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
So what... if there WAS someone worth hooking up with on that trip, she would?T-Mack said:
If you don't trust her, why are you with her? And what, you're going to believe her if she says she didn't hook up on that trip? You'd only be going on her WORD, and that means nothing. Like, what'll give you 100% confidence that she's telling the truth? You don't trust her now, what's going to change?
By now, you already have enough to go on.
I don't see why you are still with her... for the sex?
Too many red flags, too many unattractive traits.
You already know what to do.
You just want us to reaffirm your suspicions and what's already on your mind.
GettinLuckyAintLuck
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5string
Master Don Juan
^^^^^^Listen to himGettinLuckyAintLuck said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If you want to be a pus*y and decide that your too insecure to hold this down and that she'll probably cheat on you anyway since she's such a big slut, you might aswell dump her and go for a less attractive girl.
Or you can bite your tongue and keep your mouth shut like a man. Sometimes the only way to deal with it is by not showing what a weak pus*y you are within. You might be scared and insecure on the inside, but somebody has to be a man, and it has to be you.
Smile and tell her to have fun. Laugh and make jokes if she mentions the hooking up issue. Tell her to stay a few days extra so you can have some peace. Unless you want to go for the easy option and decide its not worth it.
However, drugs could be the exception, personally i would have to not get involved with that and risk my career.