"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Feeling insecure and can’t take this new relationship serious.

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T-Mack

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I have to admit I am bothered by her past history, some cheating and drugs involved. I am wondering is this worth pursuing or should I just break it off with her?
 

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you have to take people for who they are man. I learned too much about my girlfriends past and it ended up making me resent her and making her feel like ****. If you dont like it, end it, otherwise let it go and go with the flo
 
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T-Mack said:
However, tomorrow she is leaving to go on a school camping trip with a bunch of people for a couple of weeks. Before we started hooking up she said she was definitely going to hook up with someone on this trip. Recently, now she says she will not hook up with anyone and says there is no one worth hooking up with on the trip, and that she likes me.
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So what... if there WAS someone worth hooking up with on that trip, she would?

She also says I guess you don’t trust me. I say no and tell her it is because you cheated on your last boyfriend. I tell her if you can make it back without hooking up on this trip, I will be able to trust you.
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If you don't trust her, why are you with her? And what, you're going to believe her if she says she didn't hook up on that trip? You'd only be going on her WORD, and that means nothing. Like, what'll give you 100% confidence that she's telling the truth? You don't trust her now, what's going to change?

We have a lot of things in common and get along really great. The difference is the weed and lifestyle. I smoke occasionally and she smokes all the time. She also lives an overall unhealthy lifestyle, doesn’t eat well or workout that often.
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By now, you already have enough to go on.
I don't see why you are still with her... for the sex?
Too many red flags, too many unattractive traits.

I have to admit I am bothered by her past history, some cheating and drugs involved. I am wondering is this worth pursuing or should I just break it off with her?
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You already know what to do.
You just want us to reaffirm your suspicions and what's already on your mind.
 
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GettinLuckyAintLuck

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If history has taught us anything, it's that history repeats itself. This girl will cheat on you, and more than likely will take drugs again.... save yourself the heartache and break her heart asap.
 
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GettinLuckyAintLuck said:
If history has taught us anything, it's that history repeats itself. This girl will cheat on you, and more than likely will take drugs again.... save yourself the heartache and break her heart asap.
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^^^^^^Listen to him
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How about you be a man and deal with it.

If you want to be a pus*y and decide that your too insecure to hold this down and that she'll probably cheat on you anyway since she's such a big slut, you might aswell dump her and go for a less attractive girl.

Or you can bite your tongue and keep your mouth shut like a man. Sometimes the only way to deal with it is by not showing what a weak pus*y you are within. You might be scared and insecure on the inside, but somebody has to be a man, and it has to be you.

Smile and tell her to have fun. Laugh and make jokes if she mentions the hooking up issue. Tell her to stay a few days extra so you can have some peace. Unless you want to go for the easy option and decide its not worth it.

However, drugs could be the exception, personally i would have to not get involved with that and risk my career.
 
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