"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Feeling empathic for "wasted" girls and damaged goods

Suspens

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I feel sad whenever I think about every girl who has been P&Ded by her Ex bf's, girls who get into adult business, girls being taken advantage at their workplace and asked for favors, pros and hoes etc.


After studying a few books, I realized i may have some sort of a deep inferiority complex, along with being envious and slightly incompetent myself. Deep down, I'm probably feeling jealous of the guys who could get away with so much opportunistic and "jerkish" acts while still having a warm place in the heart of those damaged girls.

I guess that's the main reason I feel sympathetic with those girls, who, themselves, don't make a big deal out of those issues anyway.

Is it a nice guy issue? A captain save a hoe symptom? An inherent moral human trait? Any one else with similar experiences?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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usernamedox11

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Suspens said:
I feel sad whenever I think about every girl who has been P&Ded by her Ex bf's, girls who get into adult business, girls being taken advantage at their workplace and asked for favors, pros and hoes etc.


After studying a few books, I realized i may have some sort of a deep inferiority complex, along with being envious and slightly incompetent myself. Deep down, I'm probably feeling jealous of the guys who could get away with so much opportunistic and "jerkish" acts while still having a warm place in the heart of those damaged girls.

I guess that's the main reason I feel sympathetic with those girls, who, themselves, don't make a big deal out of those issues anyway.

Is it a nice guy issue? A captain save a hoe symptom? An inherent moral human trait? Any one else with similar experiences?
In my experience, never have sympathy for damaged girls, no matter how different you think she might be. 99% of the time she won't have any sympathy and empathy for you when she perceives to no longer have a need for you. She will toss you like a piece of trash, without any regard for all the good you might have done for her in the past. These girls are insecure, don't feel like they are lovable deep down and are more comfortable being treated like trash.

They deserve no empathy, just use them for the sperm dumpsters they are.
 

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Agreed with above. They WANT to be treated like cvm dumpster trash.
 

El Payaso

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Captain Save A Hoe to the rescue.
 

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I agree with the other posts. Women like this are b**ches who seem to want to be treated the way they do. Don't act like she's some sweetheart out fvcking, drinking, smoking, and God knows what else. If she were a quality chick she wouldn't be doing that sh*t, and she wouldn't be getting with guy after guy who fvck and dumps.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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