"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Feeling empathic for "wasted" girls and damaged goods

Suspens

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I feel sad whenever I think about every girl who has been P&Ded by her Ex bf's, girls who get into adult business, girls being taken advantage at their workplace and asked for favors, pros and hoes etc.


After studying a few books, I realized i may have some sort of a deep inferiority complex, along with being envious and slightly incompetent myself. Deep down, I'm probably feeling jealous of the guys who could get away with so much opportunistic and "jerkish" acts while still having a warm place in the heart of those damaged girls.

I guess that's the main reason I feel sympathetic with those girls, who, themselves, don't make a big deal out of those issues anyway.

Is it a nice guy issue? A captain save a hoe symptom? An inherent moral human trait? Any one else with similar experiences?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Suspens said:
I feel sad whenever I think about every girl who has been P&Ded by her Ex bf's, girls who get into adult business, girls being taken advantage at their workplace and asked for favors, pros and hoes etc.


After studying a few books, I realized i may have some sort of a deep inferiority complex, along with being envious and slightly incompetent myself. Deep down, I'm probably feeling jealous of the guys who could get away with so much opportunistic and "jerkish" acts while still having a warm place in the heart of those damaged girls.

I guess that's the main reason I feel sympathetic with those girls, who, themselves, don't make a big deal out of those issues anyway.

Is it a nice guy issue? A captain save a hoe symptom? An inherent moral human trait? Any one else with similar experiences?
In my experience, never have sympathy for damaged girls, no matter how different you think she might be. 99% of the time she won't have any sympathy and empathy for you when she perceives to no longer have a need for you. She will toss you like a piece of trash, without any regard for all the good you might have done for her in the past. These girls are insecure, don't feel like they are lovable deep down and are more comfortable being treated like trash.

They deserve no empathy, just use them for the sperm dumpsters they are.
 

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Agreed with above. They WANT to be treated like cvm dumpster trash.
 

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Captain Save A Hoe to the rescue.
 

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I agree with the other posts. Women like this are b**ches who seem to want to be treated the way they do. Don't act like she's some sweetheart out fvcking, drinking, smoking, and God knows what else. If she were a quality chick she wouldn't be doing that sh*t, and she wouldn't be getting with guy after guy who fvck and dumps.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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