"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Feeling empathic for "wasted" girls and damaged goods

Suspens

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I feel sad whenever I think about every girl who has been P&Ded by her Ex bf's, girls who get into adult business, girls being taken advantage at their workplace and asked for favors, pros and hoes etc.


After studying a few books, I realized i may have some sort of a deep inferiority complex, along with being envious and slightly incompetent myself. Deep down, I'm probably feeling jealous of the guys who could get away with so much opportunistic and "jerkish" acts while still having a warm place in the heart of those damaged girls.

I guess that's the main reason I feel sympathetic with those girls, who, themselves, don't make a big deal out of those issues anyway.

Is it a nice guy issue? A captain save a hoe symptom? An inherent moral human trait? Any one else with similar experiences?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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usernamedox11

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Suspens said:
I feel sad whenever I think about every girl who has been P&Ded by her Ex bf's, girls who get into adult business, girls being taken advantage at their workplace and asked for favors, pros and hoes etc.


After studying a few books, I realized i may have some sort of a deep inferiority complex, along with being envious and slightly incompetent myself. Deep down, I'm probably feeling jealous of the guys who could get away with so much opportunistic and "jerkish" acts while still having a warm place in the heart of those damaged girls.

I guess that's the main reason I feel sympathetic with those girls, who, themselves, don't make a big deal out of those issues anyway.

Is it a nice guy issue? A captain save a hoe symptom? An inherent moral human trait? Any one else with similar experiences?
In my experience, never have sympathy for damaged girls, no matter how different you think she might be. 99% of the time she won't have any sympathy and empathy for you when she perceives to no longer have a need for you. She will toss you like a piece of trash, without any regard for all the good you might have done for her in the past. These girls are insecure, don't feel like they are lovable deep down and are more comfortable being treated like trash.

They deserve no empathy, just use them for the sperm dumpsters they are.
 

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Agreed with above. They WANT to be treated like cvm dumpster trash.
 

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Captain Save A Hoe to the rescue.
 

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I agree with the other posts. Women like this are b**ches who seem to want to be treated the way they do. Don't act like she's some sweetheart out fvcking, drinking, smoking, and God knows what else. If she were a quality chick she wouldn't be doing that sh*t, and she wouldn't be getting with guy after guy who fvck and dumps.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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