"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Feeling empathic for "wasted" girls and damaged goods

Suspens

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I feel sad whenever I think about every girl who has been P&Ded by her Ex bf's, girls who get into adult business, girls being taken advantage at their workplace and asked for favors, pros and hoes etc.


After studying a few books, I realized i may have some sort of a deep inferiority complex, along with being envious and slightly incompetent myself. Deep down, I'm probably feeling jealous of the guys who could get away with so much opportunistic and "jerkish" acts while still having a warm place in the heart of those damaged girls.

I guess that's the main reason I feel sympathetic with those girls, who, themselves, don't make a big deal out of those issues anyway.

Is it a nice guy issue? A captain save a hoe symptom? An inherent moral human trait? Any one else with similar experiences?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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usernamedox11

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Suspens said:
I feel sad whenever I think about every girl who has been P&Ded by her Ex bf's, girls who get into adult business, girls being taken advantage at their workplace and asked for favors, pros and hoes etc.


After studying a few books, I realized i may have some sort of a deep inferiority complex, along with being envious and slightly incompetent myself. Deep down, I'm probably feeling jealous of the guys who could get away with so much opportunistic and "jerkish" acts while still having a warm place in the heart of those damaged girls.

I guess that's the main reason I feel sympathetic with those girls, who, themselves, don't make a big deal out of those issues anyway.

Is it a nice guy issue? A captain save a hoe symptom? An inherent moral human trait? Any one else with similar experiences?
In my experience, never have sympathy for damaged girls, no matter how different you think she might be. 99% of the time she won't have any sympathy and empathy for you when she perceives to no longer have a need for you. She will toss you like a piece of trash, without any regard for all the good you might have done for her in the past. These girls are insecure, don't feel like they are lovable deep down and are more comfortable being treated like trash.

They deserve no empathy, just use them for the sperm dumpsters they are.
 

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Agreed with above. They WANT to be treated like cvm dumpster trash.
 

El Payaso

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Captain Save A Hoe to the rescue.
 

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I agree with the other posts. Women like this are b**ches who seem to want to be treated the way they do. Don't act like she's some sweetheart out fvcking, drinking, smoking, and God knows what else. If she were a quality chick she wouldn't be doing that sh*t, and she wouldn't be getting with guy after guy who fvck and dumps.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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