"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Today i felt anxious..i tried to not worry about anything..but some people stole my 80$ dollar shoes ..and i was pretty pissed today..i talked to some chicks had fun with them ..i didn't really care what the outcome of any of the conversations..and i was kindda boring..i had kindda no confidence..and i was feeling anxious...i had track after school, i met these two cute girls like a week ago on my track team..i teased them made fun of em..just had fun ...but i wasn't confident but i still talked to them..and today i hugged like the first girl since i moved to the states..which was 3 weeks ago...it felt so wierd..will it get better..right now i have handshakes with all the girlz i know..
so about those two cute chicks..theres a lot of guyz hittin on dem..talkin to dem..and they know other ppl more for like a year..so i'm feeling a bit anxious..and we got a track meet this friday ..and there both coming what should i do....i want to step it up a level..and there guyz on the track team how do i be cool with them..today i just had this mad look on i don't know why..so they didn't talk to me...i wanna be cool wid em,..
alright thanks brothers
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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look at the person you are. then look in the mirror, and see the person your going to become. Listen to music, run, dance, sing, play a guitar - what ever it is that makes you happy. You have to know yourself, be comfortable with what you are, and embrace all of it! sorry, lol, i can't really explain it, it's a pretty crappy advice, but you've gotta "know thy self" to boost confidence. Go run alone, where there isn't any pressure of people around you and enjoy yourself. good luck! :up:
 
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For anxiety, remember that patience is a quiet confidence.
 
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You just moved to the states 3 week's ago?


Dude, you got a clean reputation and your a mystery to most....this is your time to shine man....

I cant give you the details you want but I can give you a confidence boost =P

Fresh start bro!
 
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