"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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steelers

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Today i felt anxious..i tried to not worry about anything..but some people stole my 80$ dollar shoes ..and i was pretty pissed today..i talked to some chicks had fun with them ..i didn't really care what the outcome of any of the conversations..and i was kindda boring..i had kindda no confidence..and i was feeling anxious...i had track after school, i met these two cute girls like a week ago on my track team..i teased them made fun of em..just had fun ...but i wasn't confident but i still talked to them..and today i hugged like the first girl since i moved to the states..which was 3 weeks ago...it felt so wierd..will it get better..right now i have handshakes with all the girlz i know..
so about those two cute chicks..theres a lot of guyz hittin on dem..talkin to dem..and they know other ppl more for like a year..so i'm feeling a bit anxious..and we got a track meet this friday ..and there both coming what should i do....i want to step it up a level..and there guyz on the track team how do i be cool with them..today i just had this mad look on i don't know why..so they didn't talk to me...i wanna be cool wid em,..
alright thanks brothers
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NewspaperRalph

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look at the person you are. then look in the mirror, and see the person your going to become. Listen to music, run, dance, sing, play a guitar - what ever it is that makes you happy. You have to know yourself, be comfortable with what you are, and embrace all of it! sorry, lol, i can't really explain it, it's a pretty crappy advice, but you've gotta "know thy self" to boost confidence. Go run alone, where there isn't any pressure of people around you and enjoy yourself. good luck! :up:
 

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For anxiety, remember that patience is a quiet confidence.
 

pvf94

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You just moved to the states 3 week's ago?


Dude, you got a clean reputation and your a mystery to most....this is your time to shine man....

I cant give you the details you want but I can give you a confidence boost =P

Fresh start bro!
 
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