"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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steelers

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Today i felt anxious..i tried to not worry about anything..but some people stole my 80$ dollar shoes ..and i was pretty pissed today..i talked to some chicks had fun with them ..i didn't really care what the outcome of any of the conversations..and i was kindda boring..i had kindda no confidence..and i was feeling anxious...i had track after school, i met these two cute girls like a week ago on my track team..i teased them made fun of em..just had fun ...but i wasn't confident but i still talked to them..and today i hugged like the first girl since i moved to the states..which was 3 weeks ago...it felt so wierd..will it get better..right now i have handshakes with all the girlz i know..
so about those two cute chicks..theres a lot of guyz hittin on dem..talkin to dem..and they know other ppl more for like a year..so i'm feeling a bit anxious..and we got a track meet this friday ..and there both coming what should i do....i want to step it up a level..and there guyz on the track team how do i be cool with them..today i just had this mad look on i don't know why..so they didn't talk to me...i wanna be cool wid em,..
alright thanks brothers
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NewspaperRalph

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look at the person you are. then look in the mirror, and see the person your going to become. Listen to music, run, dance, sing, play a guitar - what ever it is that makes you happy. You have to know yourself, be comfortable with what you are, and embrace all of it! sorry, lol, i can't really explain it, it's a pretty crappy advice, but you've gotta "know thy self" to boost confidence. Go run alone, where there isn't any pressure of people around you and enjoy yourself. good luck! :up:
 
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For anxiety, remember that patience is a quiet confidence.
 
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You just moved to the states 3 week's ago?


Dude, you got a clean reputation and your a mystery to most....this is your time to shine man....

I cant give you the details you want but I can give you a confidence boost =P

Fresh start bro!
 
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