First day of school was not what I expected. I tried to follow the Tim Flawless Natural Method and i tried to pump myself up but I still had approach anxiety. My goal was to talk to some really hot girls(the popular ones) which is not what i would usually do. So I was at lunch with friends of mine and I tried to approach with normal hey watsup im jamal and they responded well but then I didnt know what eles to say...so i ended it. They made weird faces while smiling and I felt like ****. I was at a lunch table with hot girls and since i screwed up I didnt talk for the rest of the period and I was considered low value. I reallly want to bounce back and do better because I want to hangout with them cause they are hot...Im having a tough time continuing the conversation and I know peoples advice is "say wateva" but i realize its harder said than done. Right now I just need help and some motivation for tomorrow cause i dont know what I am going to do.
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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
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Feel like ****
- Thread starter Jamal
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Think of each individual approach as its own objective. You approach, you talk, you get out... done. Don't let a bad approach hurt your confidence and don't let a good one get you too ****y. There is quite possibly a million reasons why the girls were laughing and smiling. And unless you know how a girl thinks, we will always just have to guess. So stop caring about the outcome.
Think about this. You had the balls to go talk the that hot chick. Hold on to that.
Think about this. You had the balls to go talk the that hot chick. Hold on to that.
Don't worry about the value. You acted like lower value because you think yourself as being lower value and you're still thinking like that since you are so worried what all the other think of you. Ask yourself why?
Read the 'gift of gab' and 'art of gibberish' links in my signature for more about talking to people.
Read the 'gift of gab' and 'art of gibberish' links in my signature for more about talking to people.
The confidence to talk to chicks... Most people are too scared. Even if you think you failed, that's high value, no matter what you think. Now you have thicker skin too... because you went up one level. If you can talk to a bunch of hot chicks, you're not getting easily nervous in, lets say, one to one conversation. So no matter what you think, you won! 
And yes... Say whatever. It's not what you say, it's how you say. "My name is bond... James bond". That may look like a corny sentence, but the way bond says it, sure as hell it's cool! If you said it on a different tone however, people would look at you and be like "Uhh, okay!". So general "rule"... pay attention at the tone, not at anything else! It saves you trobule to look for the right thing too.
Good luck for tommorow!
And yes... Say whatever. It's not what you say, it's how you say. "My name is bond... James bond". That may look like a corny sentence, but the way bond says it, sure as hell it's cool! If you said it on a different tone however, people would look at you and be like "Uhh, okay!". So general "rule"... pay attention at the tone, not at anything else! It saves you trobule to look for the right thing too.
Good luck for tommorow!
LMAO, i can see the experience points flowing into him right now, it's increased his armor, upgraded his charisma, and leveled up his skill in "Gibberish"Groovy said:Now you have thicker skin too... because you went up one level... So no matter what you think, you won!
And yes... Say whatever. It's not what you say, it's how you say. "My name is bond... James bond".
Seriously though, i agree with you 100%, i've said some completely nonsensical things that if you were paying attention you'd want to put a straight jacket on me.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.