"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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feel like shizit

Guitarfreakelite

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.. straight from my jornal
n yes it realy happend.


10/8/04
Funny… Damn My life is so … FUDGING funny.. Last night I received a phone call from Arial… the call was a surprise to me, a very good one. For those of you who don’t know Arial is the girl that I had a crush on except I couldn’t hit on her because her best friend who I didn’t like, was in love with me. I was freaked, she looked alright, the first time I saw her I thought she was cute and I indicated the conversation and the flirting.. My ******* friend decides to pull some kindergarten crap, stick his nose in and try to play match maker. Telling her I like her, and telling me she likes me. Keep in mind, at the time I just met her. In her head the immediately wants to dive into a intimate relationship, and so did her friends who I didn’t know at the time, who kept walking up to me asking if I like her and calling me up, and tell me to ask her out. What ever feeling I had for her when I first met her immediately dropped because of that. The next day, I meet her friend who I also thought was hot… not that I necessarily wanted a relationship with. Damn she’s hot, shes got it and she knows it too. Nice body, really nice body, long curly hair, bright smile and big smiling brown eyes. Not to mention …. She’s very well matured. Plus I always had a thing for spanish girls. I talked got to know her and by some miricle of god I got paired up with her for a get to know each other activity in history class. I liked her, she had an assertive quality to her I liked her, she was girlfriend material for me. couldn’t move though, her best friend liked me.
As I was saying I received a phone call from her yesterday. I listned to her spanish accent as she talked about her little borthers who she never mentioned to me before, and the area where she lives who I could have sworn she said she lived on the other side of town. She tells that she likes me. I tell her I like her too. Trying my best to controol myself and get too happy, because I know my luck with women. The next day a different girl ran and huged me first thing in the moring.. But something just didn’t seem right. I asked her if she called me on the phone yesterday.. She nodded her head. …….
Moral know who your talking to.

... the girl i like has a boyfriend..
it gets worse... she just had sex with him a cupple days ago.
dont know why but knowing that.. and knowing she was looking foward to it and Probably ejoyed it makes me feel like.. shizt.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AFK Protector

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that's how I feel man. But I don't have a journal. I just keep it all bottled up and you know, just kinda think about it and start hating her but the minute I see her all the hate is gone....it's so sad.

but then again, I never show it. so it doesn't really hurt me....

good to let it out man. good to let it out, as long as you know when to stop.
 

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Forget about that broad. I'm sure this girl wasn't all that special. Besides, you have other hoes hanging on you. :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Interpol
I don't understand this. You mean some random girl actually called you up pretending to be this girl you like?
haha.

Yes ONEitis. Again. You know what, if you had a passion in life, some sense of purpose or self respect, you wouldn't have written that up. If you had hobbies more important than girls you wouldn't have this problem.

It's time to start living your life AFK and stop watching it pass you by.
 
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