I really like this girl I work with. Shes definitely a "wifey" type. We have been friends and have hung out in a group with other people from work but never by ourselves. When we talk sometimes I feel like im in the friendzone. She has talked to me about how her ex treated her bad and she just wants someone thats good to her and can just settle down with. I cant help my feelings but I wish I could just tell her I want to be that person but it sounds so AFC (yea corny I know). Of course this would put me in the friendszone but she also flirts with me. We had conversations to about semi sexual stuff like how she doesnt drink alot but when she does she gets turned on and stuff like that.I wouldnt think friends had sexual conversatuibs but maybe im wrong. Its just confusing I guess. Help
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
feel like im in the friendzone but some other signs
- Thread starter El Don
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Docs
Banned
I have sex convos with ex girlfriends, friends, girls, guys, strangers.
Unless you make the flirting progress forward, and she gains attraction, then yes, you are stuck.
Unless you make the flirting progress forward, and she gains attraction, then yes, you are stuck.
Docs
Banned
You're welcome 
You know where the seduction material lies? Inside of you. Expose your sexuality and your ability to do what is not normal to you and girls will come.
You know where the seduction material lies? Inside of you. Expose your sexuality and your ability to do what is not normal to you and girls will come.