I really like this girl I work with. Shes definitely a "wifey" type. We have been friends and have hung out in a group with other people from work but never by ourselves. When we talk sometimes I feel like im in the friendzone. She has talked to me about how her ex treated her bad and she just wants someone thats good to her and can just settle down with. I cant help my feelings but I wish I could just tell her I want to be that person but it sounds so AFC (yea corny I know). Of course this would put me in the friendszone but she also flirts with me. We had conversations to about semi sexual stuff like how she doesnt drink alot but when she does she gets turned on and stuff like that.I wouldnt think friends had sexual conversatuibs but maybe im wrong. Its just confusing I guess. Help
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
feel like im in the friendzone but some other signs
- Thread starter El Don
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Docs
Banned
I have sex convos with ex girlfriends, friends, girls, guys, strangers.
Unless you make the flirting progress forward, and she gains attraction, then yes, you are stuck.
Unless you make the flirting progress forward, and she gains attraction, then yes, you are stuck.
Docs
Banned
You're welcome 
You know where the seduction material lies? Inside of you. Expose your sexuality and your ability to do what is not normal to you and girls will come.
You know where the seduction material lies? Inside of you. Expose your sexuality and your ability to do what is not normal to you and girls will come.