I really like this girl I work with. Shes definitely a "wifey" type. We have been friends and have hung out in a group with other people from work but never by ourselves. When we talk sometimes I feel like im in the friendzone. She has talked to me about how her ex treated her bad and she just wants someone thats good to her and can just settle down with. I cant help my feelings but I wish I could just tell her I want to be that person but it sounds so AFC (yea corny I know). Of course this would put me in the friendszone but she also flirts with me. We had conversations to about semi sexual stuff like how she doesnt drink alot but when she does she gets turned on and stuff like that.I wouldnt think friends had sexual conversatuibs but maybe im wrong. Its just confusing I guess. Help
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
feel like im in the friendzone but some other signs
- Thread starter El Don
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Docs
Banned
I have sex convos with ex girlfriends, friends, girls, guys, strangers.
Unless you make the flirting progress forward, and she gains attraction, then yes, you are stuck.
Unless you make the flirting progress forward, and she gains attraction, then yes, you are stuck.
Docs
Banned
You're welcome 
You know where the seduction material lies? Inside of you. Expose your sexuality and your ability to do what is not normal to you and girls will come.
You know where the seduction material lies? Inside of you. Expose your sexuality and your ability to do what is not normal to you and girls will come.