I really like this girl I work with. Shes definitely a "wifey" type. We have been friends and have hung out in a group with other people from work but never by ourselves. When we talk sometimes I feel like im in the friendzone. She has talked to me about how her ex treated her bad and she just wants someone thats good to her and can just settle down with. I cant help my feelings but I wish I could just tell her I want to be that person but it sounds so AFC (yea corny I know). Of course this would put me in the friendszone but she also flirts with me. We had conversations to about semi sexual stuff like how she doesnt drink alot but when she does she gets turned on and stuff like that.I wouldnt think friends had sexual conversatuibs but maybe im wrong. Its just confusing I guess. Help
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feel like im in the friendzone but some other signs
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I have sex convos with ex girlfriends, friends, girls, guys, strangers.
Unless you make the flirting progress forward, and she gains attraction, then yes, you are stuck.
Unless you make the flirting progress forward, and she gains attraction, then yes, you are stuck.
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You're welcome 
You know where the seduction material lies? Inside of you. Expose your sexuality and your ability to do what is not normal to you and girls will come.
You know where the seduction material lies? Inside of you. Expose your sexuality and your ability to do what is not normal to you and girls will come.