"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Feel like half a man right now..I wanna spin plates

goodganji44

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Dont worry. This isnt a woe is me AFC confession.. :)

Situation: Still on my break on dating. But seeing so much bootay at work and everywhere I go is tempting me. There's nothing holding me back except one thing. I'm 28 years old and I'm living at my parents house.

I moved out my 1 bedroom back into my folks house a couple months ago. My folks will bw moving into a new home and leaving me this one. So it made no sense to sign another lease somewhere else. They'll be moving out in Sept.

In the meantime, I feel like gaming chicks isnt even worth it because I have no endgame and Im kinda embarassed about it. I want to spin plates badly but just knowing im not in my own place anymore has kinda f'd up my psyche. Any advice to get over this hump?


FWIW: I've spent a lot of this downtime with working out and spending a shtload of money on new clothes every week. Definitely helps passing the time away.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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get on and do it, tell them you havent got your own place, you think sex only happens in your bedroom?
 

pdx1138

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^^this.

and if a potential chic asks about your living situation, tell her your parents are staying with you temporarily till sept. :D
 
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