"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Feel like half a man right now..I wanna spin plates

goodganji44

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Dont worry. This isnt a woe is me AFC confession.. :)

Situation: Still on my break on dating. But seeing so much bootay at work and everywhere I go is tempting me. There's nothing holding me back except one thing. I'm 28 years old and I'm living at my parents house.

I moved out my 1 bedroom back into my folks house a couple months ago. My folks will bw moving into a new home and leaving me this one. So it made no sense to sign another lease somewhere else. They'll be moving out in Sept.

In the meantime, I feel like gaming chicks isnt even worth it because I have no endgame and Im kinda embarassed about it. I want to spin plates badly but just knowing im not in my own place anymore has kinda f'd up my psyche. Any advice to get over this hump?


FWIW: I've spent a lot of this downtime with working out and spending a shtload of money on new clothes every week. Definitely helps passing the time away.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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betheman

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get on and do it, tell them you havent got your own place, you think sex only happens in your bedroom?
 

pdx1138

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^^this.

and if a potential chic asks about your living situation, tell her your parents are staying with you temporarily till sept. :D
 
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