"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Feel like half a man right now..I wanna spin plates

goodganji44

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Dont worry. This isnt a woe is me AFC confession.. :)

Situation: Still on my break on dating. But seeing so much bootay at work and everywhere I go is tempting me. There's nothing holding me back except one thing. I'm 28 years old and I'm living at my parents house.

I moved out my 1 bedroom back into my folks house a couple months ago. My folks will bw moving into a new home and leaving me this one. So it made no sense to sign another lease somewhere else. They'll be moving out in Sept.

In the meantime, I feel like gaming chicks isnt even worth it because I have no endgame and Im kinda embarassed about it. I want to spin plates badly but just knowing im not in my own place anymore has kinda f'd up my psyche. Any advice to get over this hump?


FWIW: I've spent a lot of this downtime with working out and spending a shtload of money on new clothes every week. Definitely helps passing the time away.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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betheman

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get on and do it, tell them you havent got your own place, you think sex only happens in your bedroom?
 

pdx1138

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^^this.

and if a potential chic asks about your living situation, tell her your parents are staying with you temporarily till sept. :D
 
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