"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Feel like half a man right now..I wanna spin plates

goodganji44

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Dont worry. This isnt a woe is me AFC confession.. :)

Situation: Still on my break on dating. But seeing so much bootay at work and everywhere I go is tempting me. There's nothing holding me back except one thing. I'm 28 years old and I'm living at my parents house.

I moved out my 1 bedroom back into my folks house a couple months ago. My folks will bw moving into a new home and leaving me this one. So it made no sense to sign another lease somewhere else. They'll be moving out in Sept.

In the meantime, I feel like gaming chicks isnt even worth it because I have no endgame and Im kinda embarassed about it. I want to spin plates badly but just knowing im not in my own place anymore has kinda f'd up my psyche. Any advice to get over this hump?


FWIW: I've spent a lot of this downtime with working out and spending a shtload of money on new clothes every week. Definitely helps passing the time away.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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betheman

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get on and do it, tell them you havent got your own place, you think sex only happens in your bedroom?
 

pdx1138

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^^this.

and if a potential chic asks about your living situation, tell her your parents are staying with you temporarily till sept. :D
 
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