"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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feel like a clown when i talk to girls i like

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LittleBigOne

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When i see girl i like (during nightlife) i have te dare to approach her. That's great but...
during the interactions i use C+F but feel myself more like a clown. I make fun of the girl and tease her but for some reason it doesn't work. The convo's stay short. Strange enough, sometimes, when i meet a girl on occasion without a real approach, it look i make better impression, without C+F. I am more calm inside then, no pressure.

Other people who have this? And what to do with it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's because your "using" C&F. Your getting into an unnatural state and you will reflect it non-verbally, women smell incongruence.
 
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drop the routines.

go buy "blueprint decoded" by RSD/Tyler Durden.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Not every guy is congruent with ****y and funny. I gave it up and did much better. I still like to be playful sometimes, but I'm not a ballbuster. Otherwise I ran into problems like offending women or not being funny or simply being a dancing monkey.

Develop natural game being you. ****y and funny is not one size fits all.
 
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