feel like a clown when i talk to girls i like

[LittleBigOne]

When i see girl i like (during nightlife) i have te dare to approach her. That's great but...
during the interactions i use C+F but feel myself more like a clown. I make fun of the girl and tease her but for some reason it doesn't work. The convo's stay short. Strange enough, sometimes, when i meet a girl on occasion without a real approach, it look i make better impression, without C+F. I am more calm inside then, no pressure.

Other people who have this? And what to do with it?

 

[Phoenix]

It's because your "using" C&F. Your getting into an unnatural state and you will reflect it non-verbally, women smell incongruence.

 

[AGBourne]

Thats what happens when you use techniques without core inner base. Stop reciting techniques and start with actually talking to women. Not at them.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Other people who have this? And what to do with it?

Start a job in show business?

 

[hover411]

drop the routines.

go buy "blueprint decoded" by RSD/Tyler Durden.

 

[Mike32ct]

Not every guy is congruent with ****y and funny. I gave it up and did much better. I still like to be playful sometimes, but I'm not a ballbuster. Otherwise I ran into problems like offending women or not being funny or simply being a dancing monkey.

Develop natural game being you. ****y and funny is not one size fits all.