"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Broham

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I'm sick of the game. I'm currently gaming about 9 girls right now, and its a F-ing pain in the ass to coordinate dates with all of them every week.

My friends are all wusses with no game and I'm sick of going out with them only to dominate 95% of the conversation. Its too much like work.

I want to give the LTR a shot. For the last year or so, I was anti-LTR but now I think I'm ready. Truthfully, I'd MUCH rather have a cool group of 4-5 guys to hang out with, but I haven't had that for a few yrs now and building up a circle is tough.

Anyways, I'd like to just get all these dates out of the way and make a shortlist, but everyone has different schedules. I really want to drop them all except 1 or 2 I really like and take a risk, see where it goes. What do you think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wiesman44

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I've never dated 9 girls at one time, lol, so I've never had that problem.


Honestly, its quite easy to narrow down the ones you think would be right for you.

If you've dated a lot of women, you generally know what you are looking for in a women. Just think about that when making your decisions.


Oh, and where the hell do you go to date 9 women at one time.......these all bar / club girls ?
 
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Do what feels right bro. Its like everything else, the grass is always greener on the other side. When your AFC, all you want to do is score girls, but once you become a DJ, you get tired of it, and look for greener pastures.

Its part of evolution, so take the next step. Start increasing your standards and only date the ones w/ higher value and LTR potential. Remember though, your still the prize and use the same techniques to keep her attraction up in a LTR that got you there.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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