"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fed Up

Broham

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I'm sick of the game. I'm currently gaming about 9 girls right now, and its a F-ing pain in the ass to coordinate dates with all of them every week.

My friends are all wusses with no game and I'm sick of going out with them only to dominate 95% of the conversation. Its too much like work.

I want to give the LTR a shot. For the last year or so, I was anti-LTR but now I think I'm ready. Truthfully, I'd MUCH rather have a cool group of 4-5 guys to hang out with, but I haven't had that for a few yrs now and building up a circle is tough.

Anyways, I'd like to just get all these dates out of the way and make a shortlist, but everyone has different schedules. I really want to drop them all except 1 or 2 I really like and take a risk, see where it goes. What do you think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wiesman44

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I've never dated 9 girls at one time, lol, so I've never had that problem.


Honestly, its quite easy to narrow down the ones you think would be right for you.

If you've dated a lot of women, you generally know what you are looking for in a women. Just think about that when making your decisions.


Oh, and where the hell do you go to date 9 women at one time.......these all bar / club girls ?
 

MacAvoy

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Do what feels right bro. Its like everything else, the grass is always greener on the other side. When your AFC, all you want to do is score girls, but once you become a DJ, you get tired of it, and look for greener pastures.

Its part of evolution, so take the next step. Start increasing your standards and only date the ones w/ higher value and LTR potential. Remember though, your still the prize and use the same techniques to keep her attraction up in a LTR that got you there.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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