"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fed Up

Broham

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I'm sick of the game. I'm currently gaming about 9 girls right now, and its a F-ing pain in the ass to coordinate dates with all of them every week.

My friends are all wusses with no game and I'm sick of going out with them only to dominate 95% of the conversation. Its too much like work.

I want to give the LTR a shot. For the last year or so, I was anti-LTR but now I think I'm ready. Truthfully, I'd MUCH rather have a cool group of 4-5 guys to hang out with, but I haven't had that for a few yrs now and building up a circle is tough.

Anyways, I'd like to just get all these dates out of the way and make a shortlist, but everyone has different schedules. I really want to drop them all except 1 or 2 I really like and take a risk, see where it goes. What do you think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wiesman44

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I've never dated 9 girls at one time, lol, so I've never had that problem.


Honestly, its quite easy to narrow down the ones you think would be right for you.

If you've dated a lot of women, you generally know what you are looking for in a women. Just think about that when making your decisions.


Oh, and where the hell do you go to date 9 women at one time.......these all bar / club girls ?
 

MacAvoy

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Do what feels right bro. Its like everything else, the grass is always greener on the other side. When your AFC, all you want to do is score girls, but once you become a DJ, you get tired of it, and look for greener pastures.

Its part of evolution, so take the next step. Start increasing your standards and only date the ones w/ higher value and LTR potential. Remember though, your still the prize and use the same techniques to keep her attraction up in a LTR that got you there.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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