"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Broham

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I'm sick of the game. I'm currently gaming about 9 girls right now, and its a F-ing pain in the ass to coordinate dates with all of them every week.

My friends are all wusses with no game and I'm sick of going out with them only to dominate 95% of the conversation. Its too much like work.

I want to give the LTR a shot. For the last year or so, I was anti-LTR but now I think I'm ready. Truthfully, I'd MUCH rather have a cool group of 4-5 guys to hang out with, but I haven't had that for a few yrs now and building up a circle is tough.

Anyways, I'd like to just get all these dates out of the way and make a shortlist, but everyone has different schedules. I really want to drop them all except 1 or 2 I really like and take a risk, see where it goes. What do you think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wiesman44

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I've never dated 9 girls at one time, lol, so I've never had that problem.


Honestly, its quite easy to narrow down the ones you think would be right for you.

If you've dated a lot of women, you generally know what you are looking for in a women. Just think about that when making your decisions.


Oh, and where the hell do you go to date 9 women at one time.......these all bar / club girls ?
 
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MacAvoy

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Do what feels right bro. Its like everything else, the grass is always greener on the other side. When your AFC, all you want to do is score girls, but once you become a DJ, you get tired of it, and look for greener pastures.

Its part of evolution, so take the next step. Start increasing your standards and only date the ones w/ higher value and LTR potential. Remember though, your still the prize and use the same techniques to keep her attraction up in a LTR that got you there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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