Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ha! - Been there
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What if she DONT like handsome dudes?ha! - Been there
True, if you're not her type, you're not her type.
Especially with some super hot teen. They're as superficial as us guys are!!! So yeah, you'll know if she thinks you're handsome or not pretty soon. IF she does, escalate! If not, NEXT!!
time to escalate!
I didn't even know girls today knew how to make a sandwich, but your point remains.