"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fear is a thing that is truly critical to your success rate in any area of your life, especially the ones involving moving to another level of understanding or improvement such as getting women.

Although I come here, read the advice and apply it, there are still times when fear comes in and burns me up and everything around resulting in me looking dumb, or flat out not approaching that HB9.

Fear is like a fire deep inside you. It ignites and you've got to learn to control it . If you do not control it, it WILL burn you up and everything around you. Think about it. Fear is like a deceptive fire, you give in and you're f*cked.

I believe that fear appears for many reasons and a lot of it has to do with what is in your mind, what you think about, and what you do. Fear is a b*tch and we need to learn to deal with it if we're gonna be big pimps and players and all that bullsh*t.

I cannot truly tell you a fool proof way of getting rid of fear, and I believe that you can't get rid of it, but as I stated previously you can CONTROL it.

Fear is the reason why many of us don't progress. People say its laziness. I say it's the fear of rejection that keeps us behind the monitor asking about women.

Over the couple of months, fear has totally f*cked over my game. There was times when I could have gotten the girl, or the number or whatever and fear ignited within me and I second guessed myself about the girl and later I'm kicking myself in the head about it.

I know it's been happening to a lot of you, and there's a point where enough is enough and its time to either lose your sanity or revolt against your normal primal thoughts and reinvent yourself.

No more bullsh*t, I'm gonna pick my life back up and do the things I need to get done first before I can be suitable for picking up women.

Many of you also need to take care of some sh*t before you should be out getting women. Get a job, get a car, or exercise, etc.......get that sh*t done and then learn to control your fears.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It might or might not be, I'm posting my input on recent sh*t so you can listen or just avoid the thread.

I only posted this to give kind of a wake up call in a way to some of those out there because lately these forums haven't had anything really worth reading, 85% of the threads on here are about self-doubt and getting sympathy because you f*cked up.

85% of the posts on the high school forum are about f*cking up or fear of f*cking up.

The overall question here is......WHO WANTS TO BE IN THE COMPANY OF WOMEN?
 

HHloser2

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I know man, Fear is the biggest things holding me back in getting the girls, But i know i will learn to control it soon enough, Ill Just ask my self "What can the rejection do to me" or "There is no reason why it should hurt me" Its all in the mind.
 

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Thanks for the input dimebag. I know what you mean when fear ****s up that chance with the Hb. I'm gonna do a load of crazy **** like bungee jumping to kill it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Start a fight club. Haha.
 
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