"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fear is a thing that is truly critical to your success rate in any area of your life, especially the ones involving moving to another level of understanding or improvement such as getting women.

Although I come here, read the advice and apply it, there are still times when fear comes in and burns me up and everything around resulting in me looking dumb, or flat out not approaching that HB9.

Fear is like a fire deep inside you. It ignites and you've got to learn to control it . If you do not control it, it WILL burn you up and everything around you. Think about it. Fear is like a deceptive fire, you give in and you're f*cked.

I believe that fear appears for many reasons and a lot of it has to do with what is in your mind, what you think about, and what you do. Fear is a b*tch and we need to learn to deal with it if we're gonna be big pimps and players and all that bullsh*t.

I cannot truly tell you a fool proof way of getting rid of fear, and I believe that you can't get rid of it, but as I stated previously you can CONTROL it.

Fear is the reason why many of us don't progress. People say its laziness. I say it's the fear of rejection that keeps us behind the monitor asking about women.

Over the couple of months, fear has totally f*cked over my game. There was times when I could have gotten the girl, or the number or whatever and fear ignited within me and I second guessed myself about the girl and later I'm kicking myself in the head about it.

I know it's been happening to a lot of you, and there's a point where enough is enough and its time to either lose your sanity or revolt against your normal primal thoughts and reinvent yourself.

No more bullsh*t, I'm gonna pick my life back up and do the things I need to get done first before I can be suitable for picking up women.

Many of you also need to take care of some sh*t before you should be out getting women. Get a job, get a car, or exercise, etc.......get that sh*t done and then learn to control your fears.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It might or might not be, I'm posting my input on recent sh*t so you can listen or just avoid the thread.

I only posted this to give kind of a wake up call in a way to some of those out there because lately these forums haven't had anything really worth reading, 85% of the threads on here are about self-doubt and getting sympathy because you f*cked up.

85% of the posts on the high school forum are about f*cking up or fear of f*cking up.

The overall question here is......WHO WANTS TO BE IN THE COMPANY OF WOMEN?
 

HHloser2

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I know man, Fear is the biggest things holding me back in getting the girls, But i know i will learn to control it soon enough, Ill Just ask my self "What can the rejection do to me" or "There is no reason why it should hurt me" Its all in the mind.
 

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Thanks for the input dimebag. I know what you mean when fear ****s up that chance with the Hb. I'm gonna do a load of crazy **** like bungee jumping to kill it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Start a fight club. Haha.
 
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