"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fear was IT.

Best friends? NAY

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I was getting this chick's number in class today who I met and knew for the hole 1 our period. (We play musical chairs for who sits where in that class). All the sudden I realized even before I was a DJ I would have basically done the same thing AKA how I talked and acted. The thing that was stopping me before was FEAR.

FEAR she would tell all her friends and I would be a laughing stock
FEAR she would just look at me funny then turn around in disgust.
This all comes down to two things FEAR of REJECTION and EMBERESMENT.
So I would sit and hope she would make a move, sit and hope of would could possible happen just IF, just MAYBE. You would get exited and maybe tremble a bit, but that would just make you less confident and have NO chance.

No Longer though do I sit in fear , But in CONFIDENCE knowing she WILL give me her number (almost any girl will….ok maybe not to you weirdoes). :D

That is all I had to say.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fear |-----------------------| Love

2 points for whoever guessed the reference
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
Fear |-----------------------| Love

2 points for whoever guessed the reference
Donnie Darko.

I win :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Heizen
Donnie Darko.

I win :D
yay for you!

*gives 2 points to heizen*
 
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