"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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asianbboy

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i'm able to comfortably flirt and talk to average looking girls now. but i still get nervous as **** around bitties to the point that i don't even try to approach them..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ BREN

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There's no point in being scared, it's all in your head. All that is stopping you is you, and the only person who can get rid of this fear is also you. This is hurting your game so man up, grab your balls and approach them. Remember every time you get rejected, you still achieved more than you would if you didn't approach in the first place.
 

sinful

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Average girls, bitties...I treat them all the same. My apologies, I take that back...I'm especially mean (playfully of course) to bitties, just for the hell of it.
 

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just gotta say **** it and go in
 

Mindgamez

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Hey man, girls are just girls. No matter pretty, super hot, or ugly, they are all humans after all and all equal. Don't be intimidated by their prettiness or their status! Same goes for everybody really. People are usually very open if you let yourself be your real self. Be authentic.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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konmai

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sounds like you're putting yourself out there though. keep at it. too many guys sitting at home reading books and forums hoping to master all this without any real interactions.
 

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The famous thing called fear. THe only thing that is stronger than hope. Many people have had their fights against it. Some won, and some lost.
The ones that won were brave, because even when they lost, they kept trying it. The ones that lost never won, simply because they already gave up before the fight. So tl;dr I dont want to say YOLOOOO, but it seems valid. Just go for it and kick some balls bro, because if you don't try you always get rejected. And when you get ditched, you'll think after; YEAH I DID IT. SHE REJECTED ME, I DONT CARE. HER FAULT, NOT MINE. I WILL GET ANOTHER CUTE GIRL SOON. Otherwise you'll keep playing those scenarios in your head; what would have happened etc.

Good luck man!
 
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