"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i'm able to comfortably flirt and talk to average looking girls now. but i still get nervous as **** around bitties to the point that i don't even try to approach them..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There's no point in being scared, it's all in your head. All that is stopping you is you, and the only person who can get rid of this fear is also you. This is hurting your game so man up, grab your balls and approach them. Remember every time you get rejected, you still achieved more than you would if you didn't approach in the first place.
 
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Average girls, bitties...I treat them all the same. My apologies, I take that back...I'm especially mean (playfully of course) to bitties, just for the hell of it.
 
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just gotta say **** it and go in
 
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Hey man, girls are just girls. No matter pretty, super hot, or ugly, they are all humans after all and all equal. Don't be intimidated by their prettiness or their status! Same goes for everybody really. People are usually very open if you let yourself be your real self. Be authentic.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sounds like you're putting yourself out there though. keep at it. too many guys sitting at home reading books and forums hoping to master all this without any real interactions.
 
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The famous thing called fear. THe only thing that is stronger than hope. Many people have had their fights against it. Some won, and some lost.
The ones that won were brave, because even when they lost, they kept trying it. The ones that lost never won, simply because they already gave up before the fight. So tl;dr I dont want to say YOLOOOO, but it seems valid. Just go for it and kick some balls bro, because if you don't try you always get rejected. And when you get ditched, you'll think after; YEAH I DID IT. SHE REJECTED ME, I DONT CARE. HER FAULT, NOT MINE. I WILL GET ANOTHER CUTE GIRL SOON. Otherwise you'll keep playing those scenarios in your head; what would have happened etc.

Good luck man!
 
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