"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fcked up (too far?)

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I fcked up with this chick. Everything was going decent, i had just met her, we were cuddling on the couch, she let me touch her titts/rub her nips and what not. It was all in a joking manner. We played chicken or go w/ each other, i got as far as i could (she was awkwardly positioned) she squeezed my c0ck. Then later in i tried to play again (like an hour later) cuz i was trying to up my kino so i could atleast get somewhere. But then she was just like "you're not getting anywhere. I have my legs crossed and im not opening them for you." And one thing i learned from James Brito is that crossed legs is a very bad sign. So how did i go from tittage to nothing? It could possibly be due to bad conversation, cuz prior to that i made some joke about her bearing my children, and she ranted about how she never wants to have kids cuz it splits the chick open. Annnnywayyyss so yeah. Did i go too far by trying to play the game again or what the hell caused this? I know i have lots of similar posts like this, but thats cuz i can't read body language worth sh!t. any suggerstions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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limerick

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LOL if you're already having some sexual stuff going on what was the point in doing other stuff? That's like playing Final Fantasy for 12 hours, just a couple moves from finishing the game and then... I think I've gone far enough... I think I should restart and play for another 12 hours!

And for that situation you could have use Mystery's LMR counters for example... the freeze out. I highly recommend watching Mystery's workshops.
 

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limerick said:
LOL if you're already having some sexual stuff going on what was the point in doing other stuff? That's like playing Final Fantasy for 12 hours, just a couple moves from finishing the game and then... I think I've gone far enough... I think I should restart and play for another 12 hours!

And for that situation you could have use Mystery's LMR counters for example... the freeze out. I highly recommend watching Mystery's workshops.
She started flirting with some other guy and i needed to get back in the game. So i decided "hey why not try chicken or go a second time." Thats when i got shut down
 

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ok girls are really sensitive in knowing if u just wanna f*** em, or u really like her and really wanna make somethin out of it. with the game and the bearing my children comment, u came off too strong, she prolly thought u was some type of pervert only after one thing. if this ever happens to u again put on the attitude, where "i dont care if we f***, but if we do thats cool to.
 

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If she stops and say we shouldn't be doing this whisper/say "Yeah, we shouldn't" and keep going. If she insists on stopping then say "I understand" in a calm voice and just get up and go check your email/watch tv or something for like 10 mins then start kissing her again. and get back into it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Eddie G. said:
ok girls are really sensitive in knowing if u just wanna f*** em, or u really like her and really wanna make somethin out of it. with the game and the bearing my children comment, u came off too strong, she prolly thought u was some type of pervert only after one thing. if this ever happens to u again put on the attitude, where "i dont care if we f***, but if we do thats cool to.
True Eddie G. In hindsight i can see how that would be the cause of this
 
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