"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fcked up (too far?)

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I fcked up with this chick. Everything was going decent, i had just met her, we were cuddling on the couch, she let me touch her titts/rub her nips and what not. It was all in a joking manner. We played chicken or go w/ each other, i got as far as i could (she was awkwardly positioned) she squeezed my c0ck. Then later in i tried to play again (like an hour later) cuz i was trying to up my kino so i could atleast get somewhere. But then she was just like "you're not getting anywhere. I have my legs crossed and im not opening them for you." And one thing i learned from James Brito is that crossed legs is a very bad sign. So how did i go from tittage to nothing? It could possibly be due to bad conversation, cuz prior to that i made some joke about her bearing my children, and she ranted about how she never wants to have kids cuz it splits the chick open. Annnnywayyyss so yeah. Did i go too far by trying to play the game again or what the hell caused this? I know i have lots of similar posts like this, but thats cuz i can't read body language worth sh!t. any suggerstions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LOL if you're already having some sexual stuff going on what was the point in doing other stuff? That's like playing Final Fantasy for 12 hours, just a couple moves from finishing the game and then... I think I've gone far enough... I think I should restart and play for another 12 hours!

And for that situation you could have use Mystery's LMR counters for example... the freeze out. I highly recommend watching Mystery's workshops.
 

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limerick said:
LOL if you're already having some sexual stuff going on what was the point in doing other stuff? That's like playing Final Fantasy for 12 hours, just a couple moves from finishing the game and then... I think I've gone far enough... I think I should restart and play for another 12 hours!

And for that situation you could have use Mystery's LMR counters for example... the freeze out. I highly recommend watching Mystery's workshops.
She started flirting with some other guy and i needed to get back in the game. So i decided "hey why not try chicken or go a second time." Thats when i got shut down
 

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ok girls are really sensitive in knowing if u just wanna f*** em, or u really like her and really wanna make somethin out of it. with the game and the bearing my children comment, u came off too strong, she prolly thought u was some type of pervert only after one thing. if this ever happens to u again put on the attitude, where "i dont care if we f***, but if we do thats cool to.
 

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If she stops and say we shouldn't be doing this whisper/say "Yeah, we shouldn't" and keep going. If she insists on stopping then say "I understand" in a calm voice and just get up and go check your email/watch tv or something for like 10 mins then start kissing her again. and get back into it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Eddie G. said:
ok girls are really sensitive in knowing if u just wanna f*** em, or u really like her and really wanna make somethin out of it. with the game and the bearing my children comment, u came off too strong, she prolly thought u was some type of pervert only after one thing. if this ever happens to u again put on the attitude, where "i dont care if we f***, but if we do thats cool to.
True Eddie G. In hindsight i can see how that would be the cause of this
 
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