I fcked up with this chick. Everything was going decent, i had just met her, we were cuddling on the couch, she let me touch her titts/rub her nips and what not. It was all in a joking manner. We played chicken or go w/ each other, i got as far as i could (she was awkwardly positioned) she squeezed my c0ck. Then later in i tried to play again (like an hour later) cuz i was trying to up my kino so i could atleast get somewhere. But then she was just like "you're not getting anywhere. I have my legs crossed and im not opening them for you." And one thing i learned from James Brito is that crossed legs is a very bad sign. So how did i go from tittage to nothing? It could possibly be due to bad conversation, cuz prior to that i made some joke about her bearing my children, and she ranted about how she never wants to have kids cuz it splits the chick open. Annnnywayyyss so yeah. Did i go too far by trying to play the game again or what the hell caused this? I know i have lots of similar posts like this, but thats cuz i can't read body language worth sh!t. any suggerstions?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Fcked up (too far?)
- Thread starter saber101
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
LOL if you're already having some sexual stuff going on what was the point in doing other stuff? That's like playing Final Fantasy for 12 hours, just a couple moves from finishing the game and then... I think I've gone far enough... I think I should restart and play for another 12 hours!
And for that situation you could have use Mystery's LMR counters for example... the freeze out. I highly recommend watching Mystery's workshops.
And for that situation you could have use Mystery's LMR counters for example... the freeze out. I highly recommend watching Mystery's workshops.
She started flirting with some other guy and i needed to get back in the game. So i decided "hey why not try chicken or go a second time." Thats when i got shut downlimerick said:LOL if you're already having some sexual stuff going on what was the point in doing other stuff? That's like playing Final Fantasy for 12 hours, just a couple moves from finishing the game and then... I think I've gone far enough... I think I should restart and play for another 12 hours!
And for that situation you could have use Mystery's LMR counters for example... the freeze out. I highly recommend watching Mystery's workshops.
Eddie G.
Don Juan
ok girls are really sensitive in knowing if u just wanna f*** em, or u really like her and really wanna make somethin out of it. with the game and the bearing my children comment, u came off too strong, she prolly thought u was some type of pervert only after one thing. if this ever happens to u again put on the attitude, where "i dont care if we f***, but if we do thats cool to.
If she stops and say we shouldn't be doing this whisper/say "Yeah, we shouldn't" and keep going. If she insists on stopping then say "I understand" in a calm voice and just get up and go check your email/watch tv or something for like 10 mins then start kissing her again. and get back into it.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
True Eddie G. In hindsight i can see how that would be the cause of thisEddie G. said:ok girls are really sensitive in knowing if u just wanna f*** em, or u really like her and really wanna make somethin out of it. with the game and the bearing my children comment, u came off too strong, she prolly thought u was some type of pervert only after one thing. if this ever happens to u again put on the attitude, where "i dont care if we f***, but if we do thats cool to.