"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fck buddy wants threesome

Sofomore

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Long story short my fvck buddy wants a threesome with another girl. She doesn't have any friends that are in the area so we have to go find a random girl. Now we're both fairly young (22) so bringing up the Internet would be weird.

To whoever has been in the same position, should we go out to the bars together looking for a girl? I am not really sure how to approach this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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st_99

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SoSuave666 said:
Just be happy she's not asking for a devil's threeway. I used to bang a girl who wanted two dudes. Needless to say when she brought that up I ran away....very fast.

an old friend of mine brother used to tag team girls with his buddy back in the day. One time i found myself in a position to partake in such activities as he had some slut over his house. I was like, dude, thats not for me. Not interested in being anywhere near a naked dude. LOL.
 

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Great replies so far guys, thanks for all the tips.

I really like your advice on how to get the third girl.
 

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I used to work with a woman HB9 who was going out with my friend. She confessed via email that she wanted to fvck my brains out. Tried everything to tempt me to sh1t on my mate. She even admitted her fantasy was to sleep with two men and get DP'd - this was not said for effect, genuinely wanted it.

She turned up at this pub I was drinking at with another friend one Saturday night, she was dolled up to the max, skin tight dress, looking sexy as fvck. I was pretty drunk and all night she kept whispering to me things like "I want you and your friend to take me to a hotel and fvck me at the same time, but I want you to be the one to fvck my arse."(!!!!!) If you've ever had a the fittest little HB9 wanting to get DP'd by you and throwing every temptation tactic in the world, I can tell you.....it was the hardest thing to say NO to in my life. I definitely would have if she wasn't going out with my mate, but you don't sh1t on your buddies.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sofomore said:
Long story short my fvck buddy wants a threesome with another girl. She doesn't have any friends that are in the area so we have to go find a random girl. Now we're both fairly young (22) so bringing up the Internet would be weird.

To whoever has been in the same position, should we go out to the bars together looking for a girl? I am not really sure how to approach this.
OP - here's a solid tactic: dress up nice yourself, get her dressed up slvtty, and go bar/club hopping. Let her strike up conversations with girls. If she's hot, it'll be easy, plus girls are really good at finding out which other girls are bi/dtf. Then you're just the cool pimp who gets to partake.
 

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Ah finally some solid advice! Thank you muscleman and tits.
 

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Yeah, she has to do all the work. The problem with craigslist or swing clubs is that every other couple wants the same thing as you - a chick with no dude attached. The numbers game works against you, and attractive single women who would go for threesomes can take their pick of any woman they want. Typically, such women are in-the-closet lesbians, which is also the reason they are single. You getting to fvck such a girl is certainly possible, but she's going to tolerate it more than be into it. You personally would have the most fun with another girl who rarely does such a thing, but just happened to get drunk enough to go through with it. That kind of girl would be most likely straight, and you would have better sex with her.
 

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Only had one threesome and both the girls were already friends that I both knew and already banged. Getting them to 3way was pretty easy. I think it's a lot better and fun if you all know each other rather being strangers.

A lot of guys on this forum can't even get one girl.. so if you can get two props to you my man.

-Scars
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Scars said:
Only had one threesome and both the girls were already friends that I both knew and already banged. Getting them to 3way was pretty easy. I think it's a lot better and fun if you all know each other rather being strangers.

A lot of guys on this forum can't even get one girl.. so if you can get two props to you my man.

-Scars
truth. I have tried and gotten oh so close to a random 3 some ( 2 girls), but realize how difficult it is to pull off. Props to those who can.
 

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A chick I'm banging suggested getting a hooker to fulfil her angels threesome fantasy. Said she really wants to watch me fvck another chick.
I said "fvck that, just get one of your friends!"
But she wants it to be a stranger.
I won't be getting a hooker with her but it might be an option for you, OP?
 
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