"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Radninja

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Update.

After almost two months no contact and waiting for my tv show to show up in the mail, I get this text.

"Hi [radninja]- How are u? I'd love 2 see u and give House back 2 u :) I've been away most of the summer.. but I am back now." - [her]

I am mildly amused, and this shows that she still has no respect for me. She may want some d1ck or she may want to make me into a complete afc, but I won't be there to find out. I'll wait a day, and will text her my address again to return my damn tv show.

P.S. She is 35 and writes like a five year old. One of the many red flags she's accumulated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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IamMyownMan

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Don't even bother. By responding you are playing into her game. Just move on. Forget about the tv show.

You've already bought it once. Legally you could 'rent' it from Netflix and make a copy without being a 'thief'.

My money says, even if she does still have it, when she knows you still want it, she 'won't be able to find it' unless YOU go to get it from her.
 

st_99

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Radninja said:
Update.

After almost two months no contact and waiting for my tv show to show up in the mail, I get this text.

"Hi [radninja]- How are u? I'd love 2 see u and give House back 2 u :) I've been away most of the summer.. but I am back now." - [her]

I am mildly amused, and this shows that she still has no respect for me. She may want some d1ck or she may want to make me into a complete afc, but I won't be there to find out. I'll wait a day, and will text her my address again to return my damn tv show.

P.S. She is 35 and writes like a five year old. One of the many red flags she's accumulated.


Hey Rad, I was in a similar situation. The HB tried getting back in contact with me MONTHS later, I didn't return the call, then she tried a few months after that.

Funny. I never did bother returning her call because I felt that she COMPLETELY controlled the frame.
 

ThunderMaverick

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Radninja, you really impress me. Out of ten guys who want to control the frame with FBs there's only one who moves on if there is one iota of disrespect and a dropping percentage of interest level.

It's good to know that you won't compromise your dignity for pu$$y. Keep on the course, my friend. Don't even shoot her a text saying "hi".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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