"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Radninja

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Update.

After almost two months no contact and waiting for my tv show to show up in the mail, I get this text.

"Hi [radninja]- How are u? I'd love 2 see u and give House back 2 u :) I've been away most of the summer.. but I am back now." - [her]

I am mildly amused, and this shows that she still has no respect for me. She may want some d1ck or she may want to make me into a complete afc, but I won't be there to find out. I'll wait a day, and will text her my address again to return my damn tv show.

P.S. She is 35 and writes like a five year old. One of the many red flags she's accumulated.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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IamMyownMan

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Don't even bother. By responding you are playing into her game. Just move on. Forget about the tv show.

You've already bought it once. Legally you could 'rent' it from Netflix and make a copy without being a 'thief'.

My money says, even if she does still have it, when she knows you still want it, she 'won't be able to find it' unless YOU go to get it from her.
 

st_99

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Radninja said:
Update.

After almost two months no contact and waiting for my tv show to show up in the mail, I get this text.

"Hi [radninja]- How are u? I'd love 2 see u and give House back 2 u :) I've been away most of the summer.. but I am back now." - [her]

I am mildly amused, and this shows that she still has no respect for me. She may want some d1ck or she may want to make me into a complete afc, but I won't be there to find out. I'll wait a day, and will text her my address again to return my damn tv show.

P.S. She is 35 and writes like a five year old. One of the many red flags she's accumulated.


Hey Rad, I was in a similar situation. The HB tried getting back in contact with me MONTHS later, I didn't return the call, then she tried a few months after that.

Funny. I never did bother returning her call because I felt that she COMPLETELY controlled the frame.
 

ThunderMaverick

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Radninja, you really impress me. Out of ten guys who want to control the frame with FBs there's only one who moves on if there is one iota of disrespect and a dropping percentage of interest level.

It's good to know that you won't compromise your dignity for pu$$y. Keep on the course, my friend. Don't even shoot her a text saying "hi".
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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