"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Radninja

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Update.

After almost two months no contact and waiting for my tv show to show up in the mail, I get this text.

"Hi [radninja]- How are u? I'd love 2 see u and give House back 2 u :) I've been away most of the summer.. but I am back now." - [her]

I am mildly amused, and this shows that she still has no respect for me. She may want some d1ck or she may want to make me into a complete afc, but I won't be there to find out. I'll wait a day, and will text her my address again to return my damn tv show.

P.S. She is 35 and writes like a five year old. One of the many red flags she's accumulated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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IamMyownMan

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Don't even bother. By responding you are playing into her game. Just move on. Forget about the tv show.

You've already bought it once. Legally you could 'rent' it from Netflix and make a copy without being a 'thief'.

My money says, even if she does still have it, when she knows you still want it, she 'won't be able to find it' unless YOU go to get it from her.
 

st_99

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Radninja said:
Update.

After almost two months no contact and waiting for my tv show to show up in the mail, I get this text.

"Hi [radninja]- How are u? I'd love 2 see u and give House back 2 u :) I've been away most of the summer.. but I am back now." - [her]

I am mildly amused, and this shows that she still has no respect for me. She may want some d1ck or she may want to make me into a complete afc, but I won't be there to find out. I'll wait a day, and will text her my address again to return my damn tv show.

P.S. She is 35 and writes like a five year old. One of the many red flags she's accumulated.


Hey Rad, I was in a similar situation. The HB tried getting back in contact with me MONTHS later, I didn't return the call, then she tried a few months after that.

Funny. I never did bother returning her call because I felt that she COMPLETELY controlled the frame.
 

ThunderMaverick

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Radninja, you really impress me. Out of ten guys who want to control the frame with FBs there's only one who moves on if there is one iota of disrespect and a dropping percentage of interest level.

It's good to know that you won't compromise your dignity for pu$$y. Keep on the course, my friend. Don't even shoot her a text saying "hi".
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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