"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Radninja

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Update.

After almost two months no contact and waiting for my tv show to show up in the mail, I get this text.

"Hi [radninja]- How are u? I'd love 2 see u and give House back 2 u :) I've been away most of the summer.. but I am back now." - [her]

I am mildly amused, and this shows that she still has no respect for me. She may want some d1ck or she may want to make me into a complete afc, but I won't be there to find out. I'll wait a day, and will text her my address again to return my damn tv show.

P.S. She is 35 and writes like a five year old. One of the many red flags she's accumulated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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IamMyownMan

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Don't even bother. By responding you are playing into her game. Just move on. Forget about the tv show.

You've already bought it once. Legally you could 'rent' it from Netflix and make a copy without being a 'thief'.

My money says, even if she does still have it, when she knows you still want it, she 'won't be able to find it' unless YOU go to get it from her.
 

st_99

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Radninja said:
Update.

After almost two months no contact and waiting for my tv show to show up in the mail, I get this text.

"Hi [radninja]- How are u? I'd love 2 see u and give House back 2 u :) I've been away most of the summer.. but I am back now." - [her]

I am mildly amused, and this shows that she still has no respect for me. She may want some d1ck or she may want to make me into a complete afc, but I won't be there to find out. I'll wait a day, and will text her my address again to return my damn tv show.

P.S. She is 35 and writes like a five year old. One of the many red flags she's accumulated.


Hey Rad, I was in a similar situation. The HB tried getting back in contact with me MONTHS later, I didn't return the call, then she tried a few months after that.

Funny. I never did bother returning her call because I felt that she COMPLETELY controlled the frame.
 

ThunderMaverick

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Radninja, you really impress me. Out of ten guys who want to control the frame with FBs there's only one who moves on if there is one iota of disrespect and a dropping percentage of interest level.

It's good to know that you won't compromise your dignity for pu$$y. Keep on the course, my friend. Don't even shoot her a text saying "hi".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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