"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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frenchbeauty

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Yea Quag I am.
Should I go back to good old barbell OHP?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dumbbells are fine. why you do flat bench after incline? it's no big deal mind you
 

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frenchbeauty said:
Yea Quag I am.
Should I go back to good old barbell OHP?
No, I was just concerned that that was the total weight you were using for a barbell oh press.

That is fine for db's and your bench numbers, continue on...
 

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Haha I guess 35 using a barbell would be pretty weak.
WBA Im doing Incline after Flat because thats what it says on the workout plan. Well isnt it? I can switch though.
 

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the workout plan says incline press followed by a dumbbell press not a flat bench press. :)

it's honestly no big deal though. pretty much anything will work for right now, if you want to do incline then flat go for it. keep the reps higher (8+) on flat bench and tuck those elbows to protect the shoulders.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alright Alex will do! :up:
Time for a serious meal.
 

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Hey guys,

Todays WO:

Squats 1*5 @ 225 1*5 @230.... My lower back was really tense tho.
Squats 1*20 @ 135
Leg Press 2*15 @ 245.
Pullthroughs 2*10 @ 120.

Diet :

10 am (grrr didnt wake up on time today): shake
1230 am: salmon rice carrots
330 pm: two double cheeseburgers
6pm : musclemilk shake
8pm : chicken rice veggies
11pm : tuna hot sauce + olive oil
 

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Oh I almost forgot : weight is 177.5 lbs.
 

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Heyguys,

Yesterdays WO:

DLs 2*5 @ 245-> painful
Then my buddy and I maxed out on bench, I pulled one rep @ 205 then failed at 210.
Bicep Curl @ 25DB 2 sets
Reverse Curls
Rows @ 100 2*8

Still keeping up with diet. However I have a question. My dream is to play for my unis US football team next year as a runningback. Im a pretty fast kid and I have quick feet, my 40yard dash is around 4.6. Thats one of the reasons I want to gain weight, but Id like to increase speed as well, at least try not to lose it.
Is my current WO alright? Or is it gonna slow me down?

Take care guys.
 

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Hey guys,

Todays Workout:

Incline BP 3@150, 6@135
DB Flat Press 2*8@65lbs
Shoulder Press 10-9 @ 35lbs
Triceps Pulldown 20@75-12@90

Keeping up with diet.

Btw dont ever get the Rocky Road flavour Gold Standard Protein. Sounded like a good idea. Its awful.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Todays WO :

Squats 4@230lbs, I didnt go deep enough last time and tried to go deeper this time. I didnt have a 5th rep for sure. Then 5@225.
11@145lbs. Tried to go for a 20 repper.... I pushed as hard as I could but couldnt get past 11.. dissapointing
Then 2 sets of leg press.

Diet: Went to bed late last night so woke up at 10:30am.
1030 - usual shake
1- burger + veggies + rice
4 - mcdonalds doublecheeseburger
530- chicken wraps, lots of them
9-usual shake + olive oil
11- tuna + olive oil

Diet wasnt optimal today for sure.

Take care. FB
 

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todays diet:

9am- usual shake
12am- post workout shake
2pm- chicken rice veggies for post workout
5:30pm - burger + lots of chicken + rice
9pm - chicken pita + 1/2 hamburger
12 pm - usual shake


Fridays workout:

DL 2*250
2 sets of curls / reverse curls
Rows 2*105

Todays workout:

Incline BP : 6*145 / 5*145
Dumbell Press : 8/6*65lbs
Shoulder Press 10-10@35lbs
Triceps Pulldown 2 sets
 

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Hey guys,

Todays WO:

Squats 4@230 , 1@230. No comment, dissapointing.
Squats 20@135
Calf Raises.

Partied last night ( no alcohol ). Went to bed late so woke up pretty late.

11 am - chicken rice veggies
2pm - shake
5pm - PWO shake
6pm - PWO meal ( pasta with LOTS of meat sauce )
9pm - two double cheese burgers from mcd*cks.
1am - shake
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mid-october
 

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I would go easy and deload on the next squat day, upper if you feel you need it. This is if you are taking a week off at Christmas/New Year. If not, then I would maybe do a full deload for the whole week, but only if you feel it neccasary. Definitely on the squats though.
 

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Hey guys ,

I'm back after a three week break, and I've been posting on an other fitness forum for a bit. So right now trying to get back up to my pre - break strength levels ....

Weight was at 181lbs before break ... it dropped to 176lbs before last week, and I'm now at 178lbs.

Today's WO:

Really happy with it .

Incline BP : 6/5 @ 140lbs
DB Flat Bench Press : 6 @ 65lbs , 10 @ 60 lbs.
Shoulder Press : 9 / 8 @ 35 lbs
2 sets of Triceps Pulldowns to finish

My goal is now to get up to 190lbs by the end of April :D. We'll see how that goes.

Take care people. FB
 

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Good to see you back...I hate getting back to my pre strength levels!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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