She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Effort thanks for the kind words man. Its actually not that bad if you want it bad. The three hardest parts to my opinion are :EFFORT said:wow 18 years old and being able to follow a diet like that is impressive keep up the good work
frenchbeauty said:Effort thanks for the kind words man. Its actually not that bad if you want it bad. The three hardest parts to my opinion are :
1. getting started
2. eating tuna and mayo before bed time
3. seeing guys whose diet suck and who dont work legs gaining crazy amounts of weight with roids. Trust me theres more than a few at my gym.![]()
Btw effort hows your training going ?
Dmatter trying to keep up to me is gonna get hard budGames on !
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
yeah if you can get a hamburger or some steak in that would help after your workout. Chicken is pretty light in the calories which is why it doesn't make the best postworkout meal.frenchbeauty said:Todays workout:
Squats 1*5 @ 215lbs 1*5 @ 225lbs yeaaa buddy ! Two plates today. I had to take a break after my third rep though for a few seconds.
Leg Press 2*15 @ 300lbs. Its an horizontal leg press machine. I like the vertical one better but theres none at my gym..
Pullthroughs 2*10 @ 105lbs.
Diet 8am - shake ( 4 eggs 50 cl milk 2 scoops whey )
11am - chicken rice veggies
2am - same shake
5pm - post workout shake
6pm - post wo meal chicken rice veggies
9pm - shake + olive oil
11pm - tuna + olive oil
Im getting kinda worried about not having enough red meat to eat. Is it alright though.
Cheers,
FB
I agree, you're on the right track and much more consistent than most guys your age. Keep it up!I-tallionStallion said:Everything is looking good, keep it up frenchy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.